Discover how you give and receive love with the official Five Love Languages test. Get instant, free results to build stronger connections.
Everyone has a specific 'emotional tank' that needs to be filled, but we all speak different languages. When you speak your partner's primary love language, they feel secure and valued. When you fail to do so, they may feel empty and unloved, even if you are trying your best.
By taking this free test, you eliminate the guesswork. Whether you are single, dating, or married, knowing your results helps you communicate needs clearly.
Most arguments stem from miscommunication. You might be cleaning the house to show love, while your partner just wants you to sit with them. This test bridges that gap.
Knowing your partner's language allows you to target your affection effectively. It turns a generic relationship into a deeply personalized connection.
You don't need to be in a couple to take this test. Understanding yourself helps you recognize what you need from future partners and friends.
For those whose primary language is Words of Affirmation, spoken words are the most powerful bridge to their heart. Unsolicited compliments mean the world to them.
✅ DO: Send unexpected text messages, leave sticky notes, and verbally encourage them before difficult tasks.
❌ DON'T: Use insults or harsh criticism. Negative words are not easily forgotten and can shatter their spirit.
This language is all about giving someone your undivided attention. Quality Time is not just sitting in the same room watching Netflix; it means active engagement.
✅ DO: Maintain eye contact, plan weekly date nights, and put your phone away when they are speaking.
❌ DON'T: Check your phone during conversations or postpone dates. This signals that they are not a priority.
Do not mistake this for materialism. For people who speak this language, the gift is a visual symbol of love. It shows that you were thinking of them when they weren't around.
✅ DO: Bring small tokens like their favorite candy, remember birthdays, and give souvenirs from trips.
❌ DON'T: Forget special occasions or give thoughtless, generic gifts. It makes them feel invisible.
For these individuals, actions speak louder than words. They feel most loved when you do practical things to ease their burden.
✅ DO: Do the dishes, fill up their gas tank, or cook a meal when you know they are stressed.
❌ DON'T: Be lazy or create more work for them. Broken commitments are seen as a lack of respect.
This language isn't just about bedroom intimacy; it is about the emotional sense of security that comes from physical contact.
✅ DO: Hug them when you see them, cuddle on the couch, and offer back rubs.
❌ DON'T: Neglect physical contact or pull away when they reach for you. It feels like emotional rejection.
Once you have finished the quiz, the real work begins. Here is how to apply your results:
Yes, our quiz is completely free. You can take it as many times as you need without registration.
Yes, it is common to have two languages with very close scores. This means you are 'bilingual' in love and appreciate both expressions equally.
We recommend taking the quiz once a year, or whenever you enter a new relationship stage (like marriage or having children), as your needs may shift.
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